tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post1661022789700833019..comments2023-11-05T01:37:57.106-08:00Comments on Non-Elusive BFP: Another babyEchloehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-6354331525293751732009-05-11T11:23:00.000-07:002009-05-11T11:23:00.000-07:00I am so sorry for you loss. I sending you prayer f...I am so sorry for you loss. I sending you prayer from Texas. HUGS!CJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07740321059928051726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-42125309577953556602009-05-11T09:23:00.000-07:002009-05-11T09:23:00.000-07:00I am so sorry that I cannot even voice the words. ...I am so sorry that I cannot even voice the words. You are my daughter's age. She just had her third miscarriage and is just devastated. I can only imagine how much worse it would be to see your beautiful baby and be so close to having what you have waited and prayed for for so long. My son and his wife have 4 beautiful children and I remember when the last baby was born, holding her in the hospital and feeling such a huge surge of bitterness-then feeling sooooo guilty! I love my children equally and adore my grandchildren but I actually felt my daughter's pain so intensely that I could hardly bear it. I wish I could just hug you and cry with and for you. I can only say, please don't let others tell you what to feel. You know that at some point you need to move on to survive but when you do that is YOUR business and no one elses. Don't give up and try to just hang on, one day at a time. I am praying for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-77808020449036116982009-05-11T08:40:00.000-07:002009-05-11T08:40:00.000-07:00allow yourself to feel conflicted right now about ...allow yourself to feel conflicted right now about this new baby in the family. It's natural to feel this way, you are dealing with loss right now, it's very hard to rejoice in the middle of that. don't beat yourself up, it's a time for self compassion. You will be able to there for your brother's happiness later on, and he'll understand if he's such a good friend as you mentioned.Petruciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15779047222262497847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-59524580366177368012009-05-10T17:18:00.000-07:002009-05-10T17:18:00.000-07:00oh sweetie, huge hugs! what a hard place to be in,...oh sweetie, huge hugs! what a hard place to be in, i can't imagine. I am glad you have such a great brother and I bet he totally understands your mixed emotions right now. I am glad you e-mailed your parents, i hope it helps them understand!aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026378388609134143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-68787641820857160112009-05-10T10:37:00.000-07:002009-05-10T10:37:00.000-07:00I found your blog through a link from another... I...I found your blog through a link from another... I guess that's how we moms of "the club no one wants to be a member of" find each other - most times at least it seems. <br /><br />I know almost exactly how you feel... at least about your brother's new baby, your nephew and how much it hurts. For me, learning of others who have gone through what we have has been a great part of the healing process. It hurts to hear that others are going through this awful pain, but comforting to know that we aren't the only ones feeling such pain and anger and sorrow and loss.<br /><br />After nearly a picture perfect pregnancy tragedy struck. At exactly 34 weeks I noticed I wasn't feeling my baby move much if at all one day... I should have noticed sooner, I will never stop thinking that even though the doctors and midwives tell me that I did all I was supposed to. After laying quietly for 20 min and still feeling no movement I went in to the hospital. After several hours we learned that our sweet Ty had died... ironically, the timeline they gave us would have put his death right around the time I was laying down and talking to him, telling him to get moving. Almost immediatly after hearing the words "I'm sorry" I remembered: my sister-in-law (husband's sister) was due to be induced in 2 days. My sweet baby was spiritually born into the arms of our Savior on the afternoon of Monday, Jan 26, 2009. He was physically born the next morning, Tuesday 1/27/09. My nephew was then born happy and healthy on Wednesday 1/28/09. <br /><br />Know that you're not alone in all that you're going through. I will be sending prayers up to our Lord for you and that He holds you as you grieve and heal. God bless you!!!<br />~jennJennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05210447847141222637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-46845623416033962412009-05-09T21:19:00.000-07:002009-05-09T21:19:00.000-07:00I too am glad your nephew is well. My younger sist...I too am glad your nephew is well. My younger sister is pregnant with her second - her first is about 1 year old. It is effortless for them and it kills me. I love my little sister soooo much and I feel like such a bitch for being jealous and for feeling like my heart is being squeezed out of my chest when we speak. It is the elephant in the room.<br /><br />I try not to be so hard on myself and let myself feel what I need to feel while being here for her the best that I can. Some days are easier than others.<br /><br />I am sorry for your pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-71048549878791665612009-05-09T16:36:00.000-07:002009-05-09T16:36:00.000-07:00Everything you said makes perfect sense from where...Everything you said makes perfect sense from where you're sitting. <br /><br />I hate how unfair it is but know that we're all here for you when ever you need us. <br /><br />So glad you emailed your parents. ((HUGS)) <br /><br />Love, <br /><br />TWe have Angel Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14492464889416475299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-16568607783922129602009-05-08T23:00:00.000-07:002009-05-08T23:00:00.000-07:00This is gut wrenchingly, mind numbingly hard, and ...This is gut wrenchingly, mind numbingly hard, and it's especially hard to seperate how much you care for your brother while holding on to how hard this is for you. <br /><br />Sending hugs.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-21751906827572742372009-05-08T19:58:00.000-07:002009-05-08T19:58:00.000-07:00I know exactly how you feel. After I lost my baby ...I know exactly how you feel. After I lost my baby I had to hear from my sister-in-law how they had sex ONCE and got pregnant.... And I had been charting and taking my temp and all of that stuff forever. I just felt like the entire world was pregnant and having healthy babies and no one got it. You aren't alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-74395489534070996602009-05-08T19:39:00.000-07:002009-05-08T19:39:00.000-07:00I have a nephew that should be only 2 months older...I have a nephew that should be only 2 months older than his cousin, it was really hard for us to deal with his birth we were happy and heart broken in the same breathe. I am glad you were able to vent to your parents, hopefully they will be able to understand how you and K are feeling now. Congrats to your brother.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-61148285749414970762009-05-08T19:00:00.000-07:002009-05-08T19:00:00.000-07:00Thinking of you and praying God will help you thro...Thinking of you and praying God will help you through this. I can't even begin to know how you feel or begin to cope but I do believe you are doing the best you can under the circumstances, Give yourself a break and a chance to begin to heal, my heart goes out to you.<br /><br />DaynaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-85418079980256110352009-05-08T18:27:00.000-07:002009-05-08T18:27:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. It being so close to your loss I kn...I am so sorry. It being so close to your loss I know it must be so hard! I am glad that they had a healthy baby but I am sad for you. I am thinking of you!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03661220372372737455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-82204047595013901802009-05-08T14:27:00.000-07:002009-05-08T14:27:00.000-07:00Ugh! Man, what a gigantic kick in the teeth from ...Ugh! Man, what a gigantic kick in the teeth from the universe. Like what you're going through isn't bad enough...heep this on your shattered heart! Today is a bad day for me, I can't be comforting...but you can borrow my baseball bat! We'll cuss at the universe and break stuff.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04602706939281669017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-47231072763364534192009-05-08T13:10:00.000-07:002009-05-08T13:10:00.000-07:00Not Fair Not Fair Not Fair I know!!
:((Not Fair Not Fair Not Fair I know!!<br /><br />:((Inannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03696628144350223948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-74349902525928161202009-05-08T13:07:00.000-07:002009-05-08T13:07:00.000-07:00Bets,
I know it's hard. I'm praying for you and ...Bets,<br /><br />I know it's hard. I'm praying for you and think about you often. Please try to keep your head up. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.<br /><br />xoxo<br />MAKL.A. Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15165356959662374738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-64104672235488969102009-05-08T12:27:00.000-07:002009-05-08T12:27:00.000-07:00I'm glad you nephew is well but so sorry for the f...I'm glad you nephew is well but so sorry for the feelings it's bringing up in you. Ironically, my nephew was also born right after we lost the Doodles and it was one of the hardest days following our loss. I couldn't bring myself to visit them in the hospital or even see him until he was several weeks (maybe close to a month) old. Hang in there, sweetie.Bustedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09926427330808873296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-73581247047073824812009-05-08T12:17:00.000-07:002009-05-08T12:17:00.000-07:00I am so sorry.
much love,
CI am so sorry. <br /><br />much love,<br />CCandacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02563403887273211473noreply@blogger.com