tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post43468469492119090..comments2023-11-05T01:37:57.106-08:00Comments on Non-Elusive BFP: I blame the clomidEchloehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-55293790325158885062008-06-14T03:24:00.000-07:002008-06-14T03:24:00.000-07:00Those moments are terribly hard and sometimes even...Those moments are terribly hard and sometimes even worse because I don't see them coming. I have two close friends who both started trying after I did and now both have their babies. Most of the time I am fine around them, but sometimes I feel like I need to run away.<BR/><BR/>((((HUGS))))Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11509124764568535676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-73164039386026255232008-06-10T08:28:00.000-07:002008-06-10T08:28:00.000-07:00I'm sorry you had such a rough time. It is so har...I'm sorry you had such a rough time. It is so hard to feel left behind or alone in this. None of my friends are even trying to get pregnant let alone understand the pain of infertility and having trouble TTC. I feel very alone in this a lot of the time. I've had similar reactions to coworkers announcing they are pregnant and a very good friend who got pregnant by accident. I just break down in a mess of sobbing. After our miscarriage I have had a few moments where I scream while I'm driving. The 'it's not fair' or 'why me' that is rining in my head just has to come out sometimes.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10190484860594898653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-52358832299596144482008-06-10T08:11:00.000-07:002008-06-10T08:11:00.000-07:00I'm sorry to hear about your situation. There is ...I'm sorry to hear about your situation. There is comfort in not being "the only one" of your friends having IF issues. As for the Clomid crazies...I definitely think that's normal. It sucks but it happens to a lot of us. Hopefully you'll start feeling better soon!osurajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13869679956503127482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-57177611021918829192008-06-10T07:25:00.000-07:002008-06-10T07:25:00.000-07:00I am so sorry. I have a friend also who is not in...I am so sorry. I have a friend also who is not in the best marriage and she decided to go off the pill. Of course she gets pregnant the first try and then she ignored me for weeks because she didn't want to tell me. Ever since I had the miscarriage I can barely even talk to her since she calls her baby "it." Don't ask, IF makes you crazy sometimes.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02493184284452219229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-48775758239328216132008-06-08T09:08:00.000-07:002008-06-08T09:08:00.000-07:00I'm so very sorry. :( Sounds like a terrible exper...I'm so very sorry. :( Sounds like a terrible experience, and I know exactly how you feel.. I have a friend who was "supposed" to be the one who had trouble getting pg too.. And while it took them a little while..she still got pg before me.. I felt a little like that too.. It took a few weeks, but I'm not angry anymore.. just happy for her..Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04327851373309099841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-32568091968298356992008-06-07T20:52:00.000-07:002008-06-07T20:52:00.000-07:00I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your situa...I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your situation. I know all too well what that's like. All my friends have 2 and 3 kids - it's lonely.<BR/><BR/>I hope your upped dose of Clomid does the trick.<BR/><BR/>And I love the Carneros Inn; heck, you're in my neck of the woods. (well Bay Area)<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>PollyPolly Gamwichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09338430066217324064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-56788263610531857032008-06-07T19:50:00.000-07:002008-06-07T19:50:00.000-07:00I had a very similar experience a couple of months...I had a very similar experience a couple of months ago, which led me to start my blog...what you said sounded so very much like how I felt. When my friend told me she was pregnant, we were in the middle of a huge park, yet I started feeling claustrophobic too. Of course I was thrilled for her, but it still was hard being left behind...<BR/><BR/>I found that the initial acceptance was hardest, but I can take it pretty well now. It helps tremendously that she is keeping her pregnancy on the down-low and that in general she isn't obsessing over it. Hopefully your friend will also be as understanding.SAHWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14817257553602920900noreply@blogger.com