tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post5438407048848909291..comments2023-11-05T01:37:57.106-08:00Comments on Non-Elusive BFP: The DishEchloehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-73847554154818471772009-06-03T11:15:08.864-07:002009-06-03T11:15:08.864-07:00Yes, that's what I did. I tried to inceases my...Yes, that's what I did. I tried to inceases my chances of having 1 baby so I put 2 embroyos in there and they both stuck. I read many blogs before transferring them and it seemed like both NEVER stuck, but mine did. So I was doing the same thing as you. Trying to increase my chances. Good Luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-19904342139692158922009-06-02T17:05:46.390-07:002009-06-02T17:05:46.390-07:00so...my RE agrees with your RE. she said that the...so...my RE agrees with your RE. she said that their clinic actually has higher FET pregnancy rates than with the IVF rates. she attributes this to stronger embryos that are more advanced in age. whatever. you have to do what is right for you (1 v. 2). i'm glad that you are deciding on counseling. i totally agree. you can stop if it is uncomfortable or unhelpful. <br /><br />xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-25705350089808596892009-06-02T16:34:18.203-07:002009-06-02T16:34:18.203-07:00Bets,
Just wanted you to know I'm sending the awa...Bets,<br /><br />Just wanted you to know I'm sending the award back atcha. I know you already have it but I couldn't, in good conscience, leave you off my list.<br /><br />Hugs!!L.A. Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15165356959662374738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-52224197933361491252009-06-02T09:50:36.278-07:002009-06-02T09:50:36.278-07:00so sorry you have to have the hysteroscopy. But yo...so sorry you have to have the hysteroscopy. But your Dr sounds like she knows what she is doing and really cares for you. It is hard to trust them sometimes hey? Good luck with everything, I am sure you will be cycling in no time!aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026378388609134143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-34848389003299964702009-06-01T16:49:57.186-07:002009-06-01T16:49:57.186-07:00Hey there. I'm sorry you didn't hear exac...Hey there. I'm sorry you didn't hear exactly what you wanted to hear at your appointment but it sounds like your doc has a definite plan for you. Not only that, but it sounds like she is truly invested and cares about helping you guys have a little one. I'm happy for you that you have such a positive doctor on your side. Up until I found Dr. B, my OB was very snippy & curt and her answer to everything was "don't worry about it," even after I found out I had something to worry about. UGH!<br /><br />Anyway, lotsa love, hon. Keep us posted.<br /><br />p.s. Thanks for the award. I'll get to it as soon as I can.L.A. Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15165356959662374738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-48065384600621130232009-06-01T15:52:07.464-07:002009-06-01T15:52:07.464-07:00I just started reading your blog a few months ago ...I just started reading your blog a few months ago and wanted to say I am so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter and I am saying an extra prayer for you.<br /><br />My 2 cents: my husband has 95 % antisperm antibodies from a hernia repair with mesh and low morphology from a varicocele. We transferred 2 great blasts for our FET #1 and it resulted in our beautiful 3 month old son. Both implanted, but one stopped growing and the other became our baby :)<br /><br />That said, IVF #1 was a transfer of one great blast that did not take. My doctor thought the frozen cycle was easier on my body. We have one frozen blast left, but I read the success rate is about 10%.<br /><br />You need to make the best decision for you. I LOVED our clinic, but I pushed for blasts and for transferring 2 instead of 1, and now we are blessed with our son.<br /><br />I wish you the best. (Sorry so long!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-60044727744327902862009-06-01T15:22:45.247-07:002009-06-01T15:22:45.247-07:00Sorry to hear you have to go through another hyste...Sorry to hear you have to go through another hysteroscopy and not transferring more then 1. That does suck but if increases your chances of carrying full term then it will be a good thing. It does sound like you have a good plan though. Sending you lots of hugs.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03661220372372737455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-38002420154477116282009-06-01T12:08:48.133-07:002009-06-01T12:08:48.133-07:00I am so sorry you have to have another hysteroscop...I am so sorry you have to have another hysteroscopy...that sucks. I wish you could transfer 2 also, but it sounds as if you have some awesome embies, so one will hopefully be all you need. I know that waiting sucks, but it will go fast. ((HUGS))<br /><br />Thanks for the award! I received that one a little while ago, so I may not repost it, but wanted you to know I appreciate it lots!!!Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09991924801382270103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-69983138062320550782009-06-01T11:35:45.953-07:002009-06-01T11:35:45.953-07:00Hi dear! Thanks for the Honest Scrap award :)
sorr...Hi dear! Thanks for the Honest Scrap award :)<br />sorry to hear your consultation didn't go as you expected... but sometimes frustrating certain of our expectations is not bad in the long run. Perhaps your doctor is right and you needn't be freaking out about just having one embryo transferred on the FET. <br />You are also still very, very sensitive from your loss, it's all so recent. Counseling will be good for you. I love therapy, to tell you the truth. Just to have someone to whom I can truly say any wacky thing that goes through my mind or my heart without being judged at all. With it all being kept in that room... it's such a freedom. And to have them help you sort through and navigate our difficulties and pain. <br />I wish you the best. and perhaps we will end up being cycle sisters again, but... I guess you'll go before me on this one. ;)Petruciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15779047222262497847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-57052202657687079142009-06-01T11:33:52.187-07:002009-06-01T11:33:52.187-07:00To anonymous. FYI It isn't that I want twins. I ...To anonymous. FYI It isn't that I want twins. I just want to put back two embies so I have a better chance of one sticking so I don't have to do this again and again and again.Echloehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-53351753673716924982009-06-01T11:29:13.330-07:002009-06-01T11:29:13.330-07:00HI. I found your blog through another blog and I a...HI. I found your blog through another blog and I am so sorry for your loss. I thought the same thing. I put to embroyos in just in case one didn't stick. Well they both stuck and not that I am NOT in LOVE with my twins and wouldn't trade them for the world, I would never do it again. It's not worth it. Twins are Quadruple the work, tiredness, craziness. I can't even explain to you how HARD HARD it was. You won't know unless you have twins, but one should have been the only embroyo in there. I mean its twice as expensive. There is never enough help! Unless you will have enough money for a live in nanny or a 2nd wife!! LOL! It's crazy. Now when people say they want twins, I always say NO YOU Don't!! They think its cute and its not. yea, maybe later, but NOt a first! I'm telling you, just do one embroyo at a time. If this one doesn't work, you have 6 left. One of them will stick, I promise! That's just my .02 cents and you can take it or leave it. I just thought its my duty as a twin mom to let people know how its NOT fun at all. Two at the same time is NOT the way to go as people will say. I want to knock it out. Um, yea... whatever. Anyways, good luck to you. I wish you all the best and many many children! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com