tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post7675269738064374588..comments2023-11-05T01:37:57.106-08:00Comments on Non-Elusive BFP: 1 monthEchloehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-49395272218334866862009-05-28T15:37:25.851-07:002009-05-28T15:37:25.851-07:00I am glad that you were able to connect with your ...I am glad that you were able to connect with your husband. I am so sorry for what you have been through. Your patient plan sounds just right to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-27998988292507955502009-05-28T08:38:08.727-07:002009-05-28T08:38:08.727-07:00I'm so glad your vacation provided some calm and b...I'm so glad your vacation provided some calm and bonding time. <br /><br />As far as Lydia's ashes, you have all the time you want to decide what to do. Once we had our Doodles back, I decided to just hang on to them for now, I like having them near me and being able to "hold" them, but we are still considering doing something else with them someday, possibly burial, not sure...if you're interested, last July when we got their remains back I asked others what they had done and got a ton of responses and their reasoning. <br /><br />(((HUGS)))Bustedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09926427330808873296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-31393396068284242682009-05-27T19:13:35.853-07:002009-05-27T19:13:35.853-07:00You're always in my thoughts. I'm glad you had a ...You're always in my thoughts. I'm glad you had a nice time with DH, being in a different space is nice sometimes.<br /><br />(((HUGS)))thewormshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13304261293993902178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-11522796748939242872009-05-27T18:08:41.029-07:002009-05-27T18:08:41.029-07:00so glad that you had a good trip and that you guys...so glad that you had a good trip and that you guys are there to support eachother. you really need a good relationship with your spouse during times like these. <br /><br />...i really like the idea of the ocean. when you are on vacation you can feel connected, you can feel connected wherever you end up going. i like that. she's part of your life wherever you are.<br /><br />xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-67558941858824195722009-05-27T17:47:26.002-07:002009-05-27T17:47:26.002-07:00May 9th was my dad's b-day and after 2 years since...May 9th was my dad's b-day and after 2 years since his passing, we spread his ashes at Lake Chelan. It's a place he loved! It was such a wonderful experience and I just feel so much better knowing he's swimming freely now. I know the situations are different, but it could be a really powerful thing for you and your hubby to do. The best part was that the water turned a beautiful blue/green color and we could see him moving through the water for several minutes afterward. It's a moment I will never forget!<br /><br />But you guys will know in your heart where the right place and time will be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-35319479788084470812009-05-27T15:55:38.171-07:002009-05-27T15:55:38.171-07:00I am glad you both had a nice time. You deserve it...I am glad you both had a nice time. You deserve it. I think it is a great plan to do with the ashes. That is what I would do for sure!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03661220372372737455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-42663260339329426132009-05-27T15:38:43.642-07:002009-05-27T15:38:43.642-07:00I do love the ocean idea. Glad you had a nice tri...I do love the ocean idea. Glad you had a nice trip!Astridhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15910745805460514947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-27203678664941252222009-05-27T13:07:14.472-07:002009-05-27T13:07:14.472-07:00I'm glad that you could enjoy your vaca and your t...I'm glad that you could enjoy your vaca and your time together. Always thinking of you.Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09991924801382270103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-25800746950175369472009-05-27T12:00:11.327-07:002009-05-27T12:00:11.327-07:00Remembering your loved little one while near any o...Remembering your loved little one while near any oceans seems very beautiful to me...b/c she'll be everywhere.B MoMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10031053140776474919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-26356539993243389692009-05-27T11:59:55.648-07:002009-05-27T11:59:55.648-07:00Mrs. Spit, that is a good way of looking at it. I...Mrs. Spit, that is a good way of looking at it. I will bring this up to K to help us better make our decision. Thank you for the advice.Echloehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00076557769820933518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-23917332105621055362009-05-27T10:51:15.269-07:002009-05-27T10:51:15.269-07:00It is good to hear that you got a chance to get aw...It is good to hear that you got a chance to get away. We did the same thing. I don't think I was ready for it. Now I wish I would have waited. Lydia will be with you regardless of what you decide to do.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071927168876473000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1417656551832616214.post-37463011405746048022009-05-27T10:48:01.017-07:002009-05-27T10:48:01.017-07:00I'm glad your time away was good, and I think the ...I'm glad your time away was good, and I think the ocean is a lovely place. <br /><br />When our son died, and we were considering a private service, our family and friends came to us and reminded us, that they wanted to attend, not just to support us, but also because Gabriel was a member of our family, a part of our circle of friends, a member of our faith community. <br /><br />Our friends grieved his death, not in the same way that his father and I did, but as a member who should have been present, but is not. He is not just my child, but a cousin, a nephew, a grandchild, a god child. He was so much more than mine. <br /><br />perhaps your friends and family feel the same way?Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.com